I so agree with you..You know the old adage "walk a mile in another man's shoes" (or something like that). My husband has been so understanding and patient after almost 30 years, he has no problem hearing me vent or try to explain but the explaining has stopped, I sound like a broken record to me !! I still do the venting periodically & he understands and I am so thankful ! I wish all of you have someone you can at least vent to. Good luck and better days to all.